Selfish

I cannot help but wonder why girls these days expect so much from their men? After having the same fight over and over again just to get to the same place, you would think that it occur to girls "Maybe I should stop asking about that one particular thing" or "I should probably give him room to breathe". Guys are so low maintenance. Most of them anyways. Sex, Food, Support. That's all they really need. Throw in some video games, some sports here and there and you're pretty much set.
When you expect your guy to do something, you are setting yourself for disappointment. Unless he is some crazy psychic, GUYS CANNOT READ YOUR MIND. It would be so much easier just to tell them what you want.
Why can't girls concentrate on the good things about the relationship? On the little things, or at least all the stuff he actually gets right. Driving you around, calling, walking you to your car. That stuff should count. It should not be an expectation. Be appreciative of all the things you already have, not what you want him to be. It doesn't work that way. Guys will appreciate a girl that knows how to give him his space, and who does not ask for too much.
Too many girls are caught up in the typical idea of a fairy tale romance. What guy can live up to that? It doesn't exist. It should be enough for a guy who WANT to spend all his time with you. He is entitled to some me time.
Give the guys a break, half the time they don't know what they did wrong. But you cannot blame them for it because every time they try to talk to you about it a fight erupts. Don't be so dramatic. Just talk to each other. You learn so much more about yourself and each other.